wolves and cats
I lived for many years with a wolf (no, not a big dog - l.lupus, the real thing.)
She needed a lot of training and discipline as a cub. But we managed to learn all we needed without ever hitting, smacking or physically abusing her.
Everything.
The same with four cats...one of whom was a badly injured bavarian wild cat who stayed with us so long we couldn't let her go again. (She refused to ever set a foot out the door again, you argue with a 37 pound cat that she is a creature of the wild when she is howling and crawling into the furthest corner under the bed that she is really a domestic cat and the felis sylvestris was just a silly mistake by our vet. I value my face too much.
So, if these "animals" can learn discipline without violence, I daresay a human child can, too.
It would help if we had more and cheaper training courses and help for "young" parents. Children are demanding little monsters - if you don't have any help or training - or, worse, you yourself were physically abused, how can you know what to do with them?
I lived for many years with a wolf (no, not a big dog - l.lupus, the real thing.)
She needed a lot of training and discipline as a cub. But we managed to learn all we needed without ever hitting, smacking or physically abusing her.
Everything.
The same with four cats...one of whom was a badly injured bavarian wild cat who stayed with us so long we couldn't let her go again. (She refused to ever set a foot out the door again, you argue with a 37 pound cat that she is a creature of the wild when she is howling and crawling into the furthest corner under the bed that she is really a domestic cat and the felis sylvestris was just a silly mistake by our vet. I value my face too much.
So, if these "animals" can learn discipline without violence, I daresay a human child can, too.
It would help if we had more and cheaper training courses and help for "young" parents. Children are demanding little monsters - if you don't have any help or training - or, worse, you yourself were physically abused, how can you know what to do with them?