You mention that you use tablets.
I would only use tablets if your water is hard, or you have exceptionally dirty pots/pans. Otherwise, I believe powder is the best solution. If the machine has optional prewash cycles, turn that off, especially if you pre-rinse, but leave it on if you want some pre washing and the dishes are fairly dirty.
Next of all, with soft water, reduce your detergent usage till you see the etching stop. If it continues and you can get rid of the etching with vinegar, set the rinse-aid higher and use the recommended dosage for detergent (this indicates hard water).
Otherwise, try to investigate if you can run a cycle with "extra rinse" engaged. Such as a dishwasher like the newest DD's which include a 3rd rinse on "Heavy" or its Eco selection now (on all models).
Otherwise, you may have to wait till the drying cycle, return the timer to the 2nd rinse (or, with computer models) select "Rinse/Hold" to rinse off extra stuff. Your manual should include some sort of cycle progression chart, so you could look at this to see what cycle to use, or download one off the internet - either way, if there is a way to get another rinse cycle, then the manual should state it.
Would it be possible to include a make & model for us? That would be beneficial, as member's who'd possibly had the same or similar machine might be able to help you.
Best of luck!
Washer111
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@mielelover
It sounds like you are using TOO MUCH detergent, especially if you are using the built-on water softener. Remember, that the Salt is used to regenerate the "ion-exchange resins" contained within the machine, which softens incoming water to a "rain-water like" state.
If the detergent use chart has different amounts for different hardness, then use the recommended for the softest water (lowest Mg/L/GPG or dhº of hardness), which is usually 1/3 less than with hard water.
I wouldn't bother with tablets in soft water, as mentioned above. Use a good quality powder such as "Finish Double Concentrate" in a 1.5KG plastic box or appropriate equivalent.
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@bwoods
Looking at my cycle progression chart for the older GE Potscrubbers (namely the 1200M/V/L series later on) on the "Light Wash," "Energy Saver" and "China/Crystal" cycles, there was only 1 rinse after the main wash (according the user guide). Therefore, if the OP was "unlucky enough" to own the particular machine, he might wish to run "Normal Wash" or "Potscrubber" to gain the extra rinse, and use lots of rinse-aid to stop hardness issues, since I believe Africa generally has hard-water