Re; married to cellphones. While not untrue, but not a reason for the above really. I also have no desire to access any appliance or other home system via my mobile phone. I can start my car with an app., but I don't. It has a remote start on the fob, which we rarely use because we keep it garaged.
Since smartphones have been easily gotten, their widespread use, along with the plethora of Apps, has conditioned much of society into a bunch of zombies.
I've often, during a nice summer evening, sat out on my patio enjoying the night air and sometimes brought out a radio to listen to and relax by.
Sometimes with a nice beverage and some munchies.
The main sidewalk is about 30 feet from my patio, and I can watch the evening's strollers out for a walk.
The thing that annoys me these days is observing the illuminated glow on the faces of people, mostly young ones, as they stare at those little screens as they walk by.
Some are talking, chatting with someone on speakerphone or texting.
Others are blasting what they consider music, loudly, like they're hard of hearing.
It's like human fireflies out on a summer night.
To me, that's a sickness, an obsession, a darned addiction, that's taken over society.
It's just not normal for humans to be so wrapped up in a little device that dominates their lives, and must mentally distance them from their surroundngs.
This is what is called "the conditioning" of society that I've sometimes mentioned.
To dominate and make such behavior a believable way to live.