We haven't fully decided what the plan is for Thanksgiving.
Mom said she's not making a full meal, just a chicken and sweet potatoes with marshmallows. We were told if we wanted anything else, we'd have to make it and bring. Mom has never liked roasted turkey, so we have never had turkey. She was hinting, however, that I should make breaded deep-fried turkey.
I think I have her convinced to make a vegetable jello salad that she makes.
It is cauliflower, carrots, bell peppers and green onions all julienne cut in a lime jello mayo mix. I have not really seen anything like it anywhere else, and as a kid I hated it. I absolutely love it as an adult. Everyone wrinkles their nose when I try to describe it but it has such a fresh light flavor.
Anyways, since there are references to family meals and movies... A lot of the time ... our family get-togethers usually end up like the meal from August: Osage County mainly because of my sister. So... you can about imagine what trying to plan a meal is like... I get in such a funk around holiday time trying to anticipate what the problems and sob stories will be for the season.
This year, I am hoping I can convince mom to just let me do a bunch of little things that we can munch on all day long and not have to have one big meal. Everyone kinda comes and goes then comes back and we try to play dominoes or cards or something and it all usually ends well.
As far as family etc. I am adopted to my maternal grandparents. I generally spend all of the holidays with mom and dad, because that is just what I do. My paternal family is ... large.. I don't usually go around when they are all together because I speak my mind and I will not back down from something.
Generally, if mom doesn't want to have a big goings on, her, dad and I will just have a nice meal and watch TV most of the night, or all play on our computers. Last year for Christmas, my sister couldn't be bothered to show up for some reason or another. I had anticipated it, so I already had a prime rib and potato casserole in the ovens. Had the entire meal ready to go, packed it up and came to town and had a very quiet and calm Christmas dinner with mom and dad.
I should note here that I am 30 and adopted to my maternal grandparents as mentioned above. My sister is technically my aunt and is 46... Interesting how two siblings can go down totally opposite paths in life.