What gets me is how the average american is so brain washed about religion and when someone says "I'm involved with my church", they automatically think it's a good thing.
Well, it's not. I have a brother who is involved with some ultra fundementalist cult church and he's been a mess for many years now. He's always just one step away from being cut off from our family. We have had it with his "church ways".
So, it's not that you go to church that is good, it's what being taught in that church that counts!
End of rant.