Perhaps Tom
doesn't need to calm down.
If someone wants to post links to 'shocking' videos, then they really shouldn't be surprised when others react with shock.
When I stumble across something outre and wish to share it, I write an email to those whom I know would enjoy it.
Richard, if you want to shock us old fuddy-duddies, then you have to accept it when we react. You don't get to dictate how we react, isn't that rule number one in the politically correct, self-actualised mumbo-jumbo you're using to defend this silliness?
Why yes, it is.