yogitunes:
"But to blame a drug or a doctor because a mature grown up doesn't have the discipline to follow the script and ruin it for the rest of us...and YES, I know from experience, I have a brother that goes overboard and ends up in the ER, I walk in and SMACK him upside the head and call him a dumb@ss, he knows better, and then leave, I'm sorry if thats cold, but if a person doesn't want help you can't force it!"
If that was in response to what I said about my close friend, I would like to point out that both the manufacturer and the Food & Drug Administration recommend only a 15 mg. dose of Restoril, for only 7-10 days, and both sources are explicit on the point that longer=term use or higher doses should be undertaken only with caution. In addition, both say that elderly patients should not be given a dose higher than 15 mg., due to the potential for weakness, falls and pseudo-dementia.
My friend was given 30 mg. beginning at age 70, in clear contravention of those guidelines. No follow-up was done with him, no re-assessment, nothing, nada, zip. The VA just kept sending him the pills automatically.
That is what I don't want to see. I want anyone who needs Restoril to be able to get it, but I don't want anyone to get it on a basis that fosters addiction. Addiction is self-perpetuating; once you're hooked, you'll do anything to satisfy the addiction. And you affect others; this person was supposed to take out life insurance to help me when he died, because I spent the last five years taking care of him 'round-the-clock, including bed baths, bedpans, the whole nine yards, plus helping him out financially. He kept forgetting to pay his premiums, and now I'm up the creek financially. Big time. I'm having to start all over, aged nearly sixty.
So please don't tell me this situation was a matter of individual responsibility. I know the situation I was in, and this man was hooked on a drug with a high addiction potential by sloppy doctoring, not because he had no willpower or didn't know better. The drug he was taking addicts people over time, it's well known, and his doctors simply didn't do what the Federal government and the manufacturer says they should have.