I've washed dishes by hand more often than not. Indeed, I never even used a dishwasher until about 11 years ago. Every place either had no working dishwasher, or there was a prevailing attitude of "it's not worth bothering with for the volume of dirty dishes generated here!" Finally, 11 years ago, there was a dishwasher available that worked, and I thought I'd try it just to try it. "It's not worth it, but it wouldn't hurt to play with it!" And before the first box of Cascade was even quarter gone, I was addicted to the convenience.
Alas, the dishwasher era was short lived. I haven't lived in a place with a dishwasher in nearly ten years now.
In the background, we hear Lord Kenmore's loud sobs.
I've felt at times that a dishwasher is #1 priority for the next place I live. Washing dishes by hand is not fun. It's often tiresome. It can be pure drudgery. And I've thought I might have more enthusiasm for cooking if I had a machine to help with cleanup.
Oddly, though, I've started questioning how important a dishwasher would be... It's not that I've suddenly started liking to wash dishes. But I see certain arguments in favor of handwashing dishes. I don't like the idea of long running times on modern dishwashers. (I may be a control freak, or simply too safety minded--but I don't like leaving appliances running totally unattended. I don't sit over them, but I don't like to have them running when I'm out, or in bed.) I also see the argument that "I'm single, I live alone, and it's not that hard washing a few dishes here and there." And there is a real argument to be made for a kitchen with fewer items (less clutter), even though that likely precludes being able to run full dishwasher loads. There is also a real argument to be made for a kitchen that emphasizes quality equipment, which will work better and last longer, but be too expensive to buy in huge quantities. A good sauce pan might be obtainable. It could be unaffordable--or at least painfully expensive--buying multiple good pans so that one is always guaranteed to have a pan available, and can always run full dishwasher loads. And, of course, there are always a certain number of items that are not dishwasher safe for whatever reason, so one might not ever eliminate washing dishes by hand. One could argue that by the time one runs hot water to wash a good knife and cutting board, one might as well just wash the rest of the prep equipment, and be done with it. Plus, of course, being negotiable on a dishwasher may open options when looking for a place to live.
We'll see what happens, I guess.