Older Northeastern cities probably are mostly steam-heated, but I grew up in a suburb of New Haven built in the early 1950's and we had passive oil/air heating. It was very quiet and seemed to work quite well (as long as we paid the oil bill, that is). Now here in California even in the big cities it is mostly gas heat of some sort, or electric heat exchanger where there is not gas service. In SF, often older apartments/flats were heated by a single passive heater, usually a floor heater. Which would mean that the other rooms in the house would be cool if not downright cold in the winters, mild as they are. Now I'm enjoying a forced air gas heating system and it works very well, although not exactly quiet and one can usually tell when it's on.
This house has two fireplaces and I retrofitted both with fairly efficient inserts. But as luck would have it the air pollution authority bans burning anything but natural gas in fireplace most of the time in the winter. If we have a wet winter, there may be fewer "no burn" times, but last winter was rather dry and I never bothered to fire up either fireplace, despite having plenty of firewood.
The last apartment my Mom lived in SF originally had a nice steam heat system, something of a rarity there, with radiators in the living room and bedroom. But when the steam system broke down, the landlord gamed the rent control system and rather than repair the steam heating, switched all the apartments over to individual gas heaters. That way the landlord no longer had to pay for the fuel to heat the apartments, but kept the rent the same. The problem was the heater were installed in perhaps the worst locations in the apartments. In my Mom's case, it got put into the end of hallway near the entry, about as far as you could get from the living areas. Needless to say it didn't work worth a damn and she spent a lot of time standing by that contraption trying to keep warm. And so it goes.