While I thought the movie was good.....
I was left with tons of questions at the end. Like What REALLY happened? Did Jack's wife know anything, did Jack's parents know anything about their freindship? I suspect that they did by all the "help" he was susposed to have come to the ranch and live there. I didn't think that these guys were gay at all, just bi with Jack leaning towards men and Ennis leaning towards women. I think that Ennis just got swept into this relationship by accident and got taken away by it. I think too much was left for us to figure out in the end of this film.
Sudsmaster, you were right about the violence in this movie, but I never saw it coming and by the time I realized what happened it was over and gone.
Without trying to spoil it for others, my wife had to remind me that that was a closet door that was being closed at the end.
And I do believe these kind of relationships exist between some men, back in my early days of flying I showed up early for a flight out of MEM, no passengers or agents were at the gate yet. As I opened the door to go down the jetway, I saw something move out of the corner of my eye. In the back of the gate desk there is a coat rack that is hidden from view of the concourse by the height of the wall behind where the agent stands. What I saw move was my Captain kissing another man! I just scurried down the jetway and didn't say anything, but I was freaked out that entire trip! I never would have suspected as this Captain was married with kids too. And as a relatively new F/O I dare not "rock the boat" with a Captain.
Back to the movie, if you go out around Kerrville & Hunt, Texas you start finding the kind of guys that were in this movie. They say very little, keep everything in, etc. It seems you never know what they are thinking. I think the BBM movie really is about what are the true things that make up a man.