scott55405
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BT, I'll attempt to respectfully respond to your comments, and this final post will be all I'll say publicly unless the conversation were to continue about the cake or the various events. Dan, Brett and Louis also made some very good comments and observations that I agree with <br
I don't want to debate amongst those who would just as soon the subject be closed. I said as much as I did mainly, as I said, because I felt strongly that it needed saying. You could then always email if there's anything else you'd want to ask or need to know <br
I agree and appreciate the fact that you merely made a statement as it were. If that is your opinion, it is yours and valid to you. I've seen postings of yours in other on topic threads and I will say that you've been polite and respectful to whomever you've encountered as far as I've seen, and as such I think the membership would welcome your participation, and I speak in general terms as it would not be my decision to make, nor am I authorized to speak for others <br
You are indeed correct as to your interpretation of the topic of the forum at large. However, this particular "Super" section has a more open interpretation of the topics posted within, and there are off topic posts that appear here. Particularly since this thread was started by the webmaster, I expect it was in his mind and discretion an acceptable topic to post about, since it was special to him and he knew that it would be of interest to many readers <br
Although I'm not heterosexual and as such probably don't see things as you might, I don't personally see a need for a heterosexual pride parade quite frankly, but you maybe do and we have in this case a differing opinion, which we're each entitled to our version. I guess what bothered me is that I just didn't see throwing that statement out there in the middle of a positive discussion amongst friends as necessary or appropriate. Maybe Vet's Day doesn't cut it, but in my mind I commended Greg for his lighthearted response. To be fair, it might have been left at that had xyz not shown his a-s-s to the world and ruffled my feathers anew to begin with <br
If you held or attended a heterosexual parade put on by someone else and posted about it, you may not get a lot of replies, but those you did would be more in the lines of hope you had fun or whatever, or we might just read and move on or skip it, since it didn't apply to us. You may have elected to take a similar tack. It's probably easier for you that way, too. Calling out someone's chosen costume in a picture as "sick" was inappropriate and uncalled for as well, given the position you'd by then found yourself in. Like many things, voicing of opinions has a time and a place, and I think we all have situations where we know it's best to keep ours personal. This would be one of those situations, much like you wouldn't likely express all your true opinions to your boss, mother-in-law or what have you <br
I meant no disrespect to you or your opinions, from that standpoint whether or not we agree is irrelevant. I don't imagine we'll ever see eye to eye on this topic, but if you enjoy or are interested in the general subject matter of the forum I hope you'll continue to participate, and if you happen to pose a question about something I know about, I'll do what I can to help. Fair enough <br
That might be a pretty big piece of cake for just before bed. I'll cut it in half, and we can each have some. As someone who does some baking for leisure, I can tell you that putting that together with all those colors and layers was no small feat <br
Good night, and you can reach me at [email protected] if you need to.
I don't want to debate amongst those who would just as soon the subject be closed. I said as much as I did mainly, as I said, because I felt strongly that it needed saying. You could then always email if there's anything else you'd want to ask or need to know <br
I agree and appreciate the fact that you merely made a statement as it were. If that is your opinion, it is yours and valid to you. I've seen postings of yours in other on topic threads and I will say that you've been polite and respectful to whomever you've encountered as far as I've seen, and as such I think the membership would welcome your participation, and I speak in general terms as it would not be my decision to make, nor am I authorized to speak for others <br
You are indeed correct as to your interpretation of the topic of the forum at large. However, this particular "Super" section has a more open interpretation of the topics posted within, and there are off topic posts that appear here. Particularly since this thread was started by the webmaster, I expect it was in his mind and discretion an acceptable topic to post about, since it was special to him and he knew that it would be of interest to many readers <br
Although I'm not heterosexual and as such probably don't see things as you might, I don't personally see a need for a heterosexual pride parade quite frankly, but you maybe do and we have in this case a differing opinion, which we're each entitled to our version. I guess what bothered me is that I just didn't see throwing that statement out there in the middle of a positive discussion amongst friends as necessary or appropriate. Maybe Vet's Day doesn't cut it, but in my mind I commended Greg for his lighthearted response. To be fair, it might have been left at that had xyz not shown his a-s-s to the world and ruffled my feathers anew to begin with <br
If you held or attended a heterosexual parade put on by someone else and posted about it, you may not get a lot of replies, but those you did would be more in the lines of hope you had fun or whatever, or we might just read and move on or skip it, since it didn't apply to us. You may have elected to take a similar tack. It's probably easier for you that way, too. Calling out someone's chosen costume in a picture as "sick" was inappropriate and uncalled for as well, given the position you'd by then found yourself in. Like many things, voicing of opinions has a time and a place, and I think we all have situations where we know it's best to keep ours personal. This would be one of those situations, much like you wouldn't likely express all your true opinions to your boss, mother-in-law or what have you <br
I meant no disrespect to you or your opinions, from that standpoint whether or not we agree is irrelevant. I don't imagine we'll ever see eye to eye on this topic, but if you enjoy or are interested in the general subject matter of the forum I hope you'll continue to participate, and if you happen to pose a question about something I know about, I'll do what I can to help. Fair enough <br
That might be a pretty big piece of cake for just before bed. I'll cut it in half, and we can each have some. As someone who does some baking for leisure, I can tell you that putting that together with all those colors and layers was no small feat <br
Good night, and you can reach me at [email protected] if you need to.