You know guys, I really don't understand what the big deal about all this really is. Personally, I don't give a good damn what anyone thinks, and I never have. But it certainly does not mean that because someone thinks differently then I do that I can't call that person a friend or be open to his/her point of view. Or in any way, shape or form treat that person poorly, talk about him/her behind their back or even not show up at a wash-in because those folks with opinions different then mine might be there. That's just ridiculous. Sometimes folks express opinions in ignorance, or what I call "uninformed opinions". There's nothing wrong with educating them....after all, that's what we're all here for.
I haven't seen a single example of anyone attacking anyone in this thread. There is no reason to be so sensitive that we can't be friends and express opinions that may be different from our fellow posters? We're all adults here, and damned fine people, too, I might add. There is nothing that anyone on this board, or any other, can say that is going to materially alter your life! It's just an opinion. And let's face it, not everyone has a way with words, either. It does not make them bad or undeserving. Some express opinions through humor, but not everyone "gets it". That's okay too. I personally find those particular folks to be very amusing myself, but that's just my opinion. They are not intent on purposely offending anyone.
The poster who started this thread, SudsDudeShane, and I have been best friends for over 12 years. If you think that he and I agree on everything, you are so wrong. We are very different people. Yet we are also very good friends...because we don't attack each other and call each other names like schoolyard children. We just disagree on things from time to time, and move on. If one feels that they just have to be right, then so be it. It certainly does not make them a bad person, just somewhat of a pain in the ass at the family picnic! Again, nothing that they are going to say here is going to materially affect your life!!
We are all pretty intelligent folks who have lots of different life experiences to bring to the table that others can learn from. If you don't understand the context of a posting, just ask before you go ballistic. Sometimes folks respond negatively before they've even read a post completely.
This is a new year. Let's let respect and courtesy be the buzzwords around here for the new year. I think we all deserve that. And that is just my opinion!!!
Thanks all...and a very safe, happy and healthy new year to everyone.